Wednesday, February 25, 2009
Single Life!
I would have to agree with the person who wrote about their mom and how women should make themselves happy before finding a guy. I think that if you are not happy with your life and the person you are becoming, you need that time to find why that it is and work on it before getting into another relationship back to back. I think that if you do get into a relationships back to back that you never really get over on how things ended with your previous relationship and then that takes a toll in the relationship that you currently just started. I would say I am an example of that because when i was younger like in high school i would get out of a relationship and then i would be dating someone else within the next week or so, usually they were my friends before hand and they just had a crush on me, and i always give people a chance so that is probably why i did that. But it really does effect you after a while because you always do have questions about what went wrong with the pervious relationships, you dont have that time to learn and grow from it. I can say now that i have completley changed that.
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I agree with you, and that being happy with oneself is the first step in a happy and healthy relationship. It takes time to find out who you are and I think a major way of finding out is through failed relationships. A person learns a lot about themselves with failed relationships because they step back and see why it didn't work. Or, on the other hand they could jump into another relationship just to fill a void. I think being alone strengthens people although it is sometimes difficult. I have learned through failed relationships that I expect more and more out of the next and become more picky, which to me is not a bad thing. To me being picky just means you know what you want in a guy and are not willing to bend for anyone.
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