Although I've always wanted to be a parent and have children, I have never really noticed all the negative aspects highlighted in informative resources and the media. Now that they've been pointed out, it does seem a bit odd to be that people are not completely turned off by the idea of raising a child. However, I too have a difficult time even considering the fact that having kids might not be worth it.
I think this is why mate selection is so important before having children. If you have a partner that supports and comforts you having a kid or anything else for that matter. Sharing and always having those second opinions of a partner will give you more piece of mind and also be there so you both can divide time to have both a family life and an outside life (or at least i think, ive never married or had kids)
I think if people also go through all the 'methods to strengthen your marriage during transition' they will realize if their relationship is strong enough and what they will need to work on. I know i will pay major attention to who i am with exactly before i have any children or anything that leads to them, haha.
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