From class on Tuesday, I have learned that a decision or an argument should not be on who wins within the situation and that it should be more of a positive compromise of the two to come together. With me being in a relationship and about to get married it is a helping tool for myself and my fiance. We are not very good about making decisions especially me, I tend to want him to make all of the decisions. But i dont think that one of us has more power of the other, I think that it about equal.