Power stuggles

When me and my boyfriend started dating, he tried to have all the power. He tried to make all the decisions and never wanted to do what i wanted to do. I wanted to relationship so i let him have most of the power, and i didnt really care. Now i realize that isnt a healthy relationship at all. Me and my boyfriend now both have the same amount of power, and he knows not to try to have the power of our relationship. It needs to be equal between both parners. I don't want to have all the comtrol, and neither does he.