Tuesday, March 3, 2009
Mate Selection/ Games
This class was one of the more interesting ones to me this year. I notice while we had a discssion on games played, that I tend to do some of these even when I am not trying. I do enjoy playing these games with others just to see what their reactions will be. I do think some of then can tend to be rude for others and have seen others do things I would never think of. These games do however seem as if they are used as an icebreaker at first. I feel it is a way to get to know one another. The mate selection will always be there. First thing that I notice are ones looks. I feel I need to be attracted to someone or it will not work. Also, having things in common will make it easier to do things. I do think that there is a certain someone out there and in time one will find them, if not maybe it's just not meant to be.
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I agree with you completely! yes this class was very interesting to me as well. As he was talking about the games people play, I caught myself thinking of times I have played more then one of these games. While I play the games I see it as a test, but always when I am done I am disappointed that I even had to go that route. Love really can't be proven, it is something that is much deeper than the word. As we talked about these games I realized that I am only harming the relationships I get into while playing these games. It made me realize I need to cut my habit if I really want a healthy relationship. In the beginning I always keep my guard up and play games to refrain from getting hurt. I need to realize the pattern needs to end, and if i feel like I need to continue playing games, then the relationship isn't worth it. I need to find someone who I want to open up to and not play these games with.
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